فن الاقناع

فن الاقناع مهارة وضرورة في الحوار والمناقشات وحتى خلال المحادثات بين الاصدقاء بإتقانها تتقن اسلوب الكلام والاخذ والعطاء   وتبعد عن العصبية وقول الالفاظ التي قد تجرح غيرك ولا تعينك في نقل فكرتك بالصورة الصحيحة الواضحة

كتاب فن الاقناع حصلت عليه من خلال 

Weekly Reading Session | شبابنا يقرأ

 في الفيس بوك من صفحة كتاب الاسبوع اعجبني التالي (اضغط على الصورة لرؤيتها بوضوح)

Rich dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki

                       "who controls the past controls the future, who controls the present controls the past" Robert Kiyosaki

I came across this book which striked me after reading few pages of it, i still do not know who is robert kyosaki but hurd he is a very rich man. From what i understood he had two dads one with poor mentality and the other with rich mentality both were highly educated. here is some highlights of what i read :

one dad would say, "The love of money is the root of all evil." The other, "The lack of money is the root of all evil."


For example, one dad had a habit of saying, "I can't afford it." The other dad forbade those words to be used. He insisted I say, "How can I afford it?" One is a statement, and the other is a question. One lets you off the hook, and the other forces you to think


Proper physical exercise increases your chances for health, and proper mental exercise increases your chances for wealth


One dad thought that the rich should pay more in taxes to take care of those less fortunate. The other said, "Taxes punish those who produce and reward those who don't produce."


One dad recommended, "Study hard so you can find a good company to work for." The other recommended, "Study hard so you can find a good company to buy."


One dad said, "The reason I'm not rich is because I have you kids." The other said, "The reason I must be rich is because I have you kids."


One encouraged talking about money and business at the dinner ,table. The other forbade the subject of money to be discussed over a meal.


One said, "When it comes to money, play it safe, don't take risks." The other said, "Learn to manage risk."


One believed, "Our home is our largest investment and our greatest asset." The other believed, "My house is a liability, and if your house is your largest investment, you're in trouble."

Both dads paid their bills on time, yet one paid his bills first while the other paid his bills last.


One dad taught me how to write an impressive resume so I could find a good job. The other taught me how to write strong business and financial plans so I could create jobs.


one dad said "I will never be rich" other said "I'm a rich man, and rich people don't do this." Even when he was flat broke after a major financial setback, he continued to refer to himself as a rich man. He would cover himself by saying, "There is a difference between being poor and being broke. - Broke is temporary, and poor is eternal."


My poor dad would also say, "I'm not interested in money," or "Money doesn't matter." My rich dad always said, "Money is power."


One wanted me to study hard, earn a degree and get a good job to work for money. He wanted me to study to become a professional, an attorney or an accountant or to go to business school for my MBA. The other encouraged me to study to be rich, to understand how money works and to learn how to have it work for me. "I don't work for money!" were words he would repeat over and over, "Money works for me!"

1 Hour of Uggdal

After going with wonderful Mila to the supermarket and Meeting a dutch woman who left rotterdam to live in tysnes island which does not even have half of the facilities which rotterdam has. The thought of asking her why you are here slipped of my mind, though I made a comment of she being bored of rotterdam that is why she ended here, she said yes true i lived there for 35 years then traveled around the world with my bf then ended buying a house here on top of the mountain.

 I Took a little walk alone in the village of uggdal in tysnes island. Saw beside the road a house which water was passing beside it getting split between big rocks, reforming it self to reach the sea, set and closed my eyes listened to the water which sounded like a waterfall , amazingly breathed the fresh air felt the energy from the trees, water and rocks in full appreciation to the Lord, watching my thoughts carefully noticed how some stream of thoughts are full of gratitude and others are full of anxiety, Useless thoughts , such sessions bring awareness to my presence in full notice of Satan/the negative thoughts, thoughts which are planted by others, and thoughts which are a reflection of some past issues. After 30mins, maybe more or less i don't know because I didn't have a watch or a phone, I walked along the road on my left hand there were houses facing the sea which is surrounded by big green mountains. Houses which had bouts parked in front of it on the sea water. So lovely and amazing looking at how people are blessed with such nature. The road was gradually going upwards so i walked and set on a rock which was high enough to see the houses and the sea. Watched carefully how the wind touched the sea made it look like silky cloth moving with the wind. The sky drizzled for a moment. So you may imagine how the sea was so beautiful having those tiny rain drops touching its surface forming an elegant art of peace and love. as if there were fishes underneath the surface dancing and celebrating.  The place were i set and had moment with myself and the lord there was 2 houses there. The people who lives in that house hears the sound of the water 24hrs. I imagined my self at that moment having such house, why not i'll do sooner or later ;). On the other hand, i realized that i did a mistake which comes to not having sport clothes. My travelling to Norway was mostly to get into the nature and that obviously requires comfortable sportive clothes but hah i forgot , wanted to look good to my love so i forgot that part. Anyways that's a lesson to take care of in the Next trip.

Trip to Norway

Each city u go to go better to the its tourist info.

Trains :
Railway europe
Norwagian Airline

Attraction
Tysse Island
Floyan mountain
a walk then hike to Buer Glacier
Folgefonna National Park Centre (6ookm^2)
Norway Cliffs

Oslo
Free things to do in oslo
Norwegian museum of science and technology

Odda
Buer glacier
Trolltunga
waterfalls

Webs Airlines
Tx.nl
Wizzair.com
norwegian.com
sas (swedish airline)

• Top universities in Norway. They apply the mantra "Education free for all"
• Norwegian university of science and technology is ranked 119 (approx) in engineering field of electronics i may go for masters in one of the following
• Chalmers uni

The Legend

Finally found that someone translated at least a book of Mustafa mahmood the genious thinker :D :D 

here is a link for his book A Dialogue With My Atheist Friend , I haven't read it yet but checked the table of contents ,which had hot highlights. I went through few lines in the book, the english translation isn't that perfect and not that bad. 

 

 Mustafa mahmood (25 December 1921 – 31 October 2009)
An Egyption Scientist who left the 3 Dimensional world at the age of 88 leaving behind a legacy of nearly 80 books.His writings are worth having a look at , so deep, analytic and awakening. Connecting science and spirituality zooming out and in. 

   He was working in the field of medicine then stopped that job in order to be a phsyconaut in search for the truth , left religion and got hated by the majority, because he had the guts to say it loud with no fear. After a long journey of travelling and research he produced to the world rich materials and thoughts. Expressing it through his books and through his TV show (Science and Faith) discussing different scientific, philosophical concepts.
Challenged the conventional thinking, inspired lots of people.
Eventually he returned to Islam, after tasting the different ideologies and thoughts. 

Some of his Videos (english subtitles included)

• Liquid crystal 
• Why there are different religions 
• Magnetism and Electricity
• People who hear without Ears
• Kissing my husband hand
• the unseen and the unknown
• A research in Human Behavior
• The Magic Mask
• Sorcery and Medicine
• Hypnotism
  Soul (nafs) and Spirit(rooh)
• The greatest Secret
• Faiths in Japan
• Origin of Life
• Migrating Birds
• The universe
• Miracle called the Will
• The wonders of Human Brain
• Dragon legacy
•  The terrible poison
  
  
  Quotes : from the book  Islam, What is it ?
  
  "Even if your name is muhammed or Ali or Othoman its not enough to be a muslim". 
  
  
  "The faithful should invite people to faith and it doesn't hurt him to hear from anybody neither if the other person is a disbeliever, he can be faithful in any system and any environment." P5
  
  
  "Faith is a state of heart, religion is a feeling and not a phenomenon. And the awakened can see even if the surroundings are blinds". 
  
  
  "Prayer is a result of what is in the heart. It significance relays in its ability to purify the heart and bring up the motivation and focus the thought and emotions". P7
  
  
  "Your body is your horse. You ride it,control it, tame it and guide it to your purpose not the opposite of which it uses you for its own purpose and drive you to its lust". P16
  "You are human only when you resist what you love and endure what you hate" P17
  
  
  "Fasting is but an exercise for riding the horse, taming it, customizing it for enduring the hunger and discomfort, and it is a lesson for discipline, morality and obedience". 
  
  
  "Zakaat (Charity) it isn't a degradation for the poor, isn't handout for a begger. It is a right extracted from the money of the wealthy giving it to the needy in the society with dignity and without even asking. Similar to taxes taken by the law and spent by the law." P21
  
  
  "Zakaat from its name it can be understood that it purify the person. Purify oneself from stinginess and avarice and selfishness, therefore the most benefited person is the giver".
  
  
  "Some say : God helped me so i gave what i gave to satisfy him, others says : i worked hard, spent and gave from my effort. The 1st see nothing but God and the other see nothing but himselfك that is why the latter ends up with depression. That is zakaat it's the spirit ointment (مرهما) , balm (بلسما) , freshener, healer and a cleanser for ones heart".P25
  
   
  "Worship is a result of knowing"
  
  This is what i could extract for the moment , perhaps i'll add more for other time.